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Hey there!
Have you ever tried learning an instrument on your own? Have you watched endless Youtube videos trying to find something that makes sense for yourself? I’ve been there!
I actually taught myself how to play guitar when I was 16. My oldest brother, Jason, played electric, acoustic, and classical guitar growing up and was a great inspiration to my learning and personal growth.
I’m beyond grateful to have had parents that supported my musical upbringing, brought me and my 2 older brothers to music lessons every week, and encouraged us to always use our music to express ourselves. My brothers, Jason and Jordan (who played drums), and I learned a lot about group dynamics while jamming, practicing, rehearsing, and performing together over the course of about 4-6 years during high school. I’m pretty lucky to have had parents that were willing to put up with all that noise! :D
I think it’s important to know that playing music with others usually makes it feel so much more substantial. This is possibly why a lot of people don’t get as excited about learning an instrument on their own, versus taking lessons or jamming with a friend. Music is a language, a shared experience, and you can learn a lot more about yourself by playing music with someone than watching a handful of tutorial videos.
I experienced this in my late teens/early 20s while trying to teach myself violin and cello. I ultimately ended up finding professional teachers to help supplement my studies with violin, cello and later on, guitar, and it ended up being a real catalyst to my learning! Why is that?
My suspicion is that validation is a real and powerful tool. Sometimes we need someone to tell us whether something sounds or feels right, or not. Sometimes we need help understanding the mechanics and technicalities of singing or playing as it pertains to our own unique and distinct style and biology. Getting a professional opinion is always my first recommendation, if possible (And while there are professional opinions all over youtube, sometimes one person’s fix isn’t applicable to another, and in fact could be a detriment to another person’s practice!).
On that note, another reason to try music lessons may be to gain some feedback or helpful critique. Sometimes we need someone to tell us whether we’re doing something potentially harmful to our voice or bodies. A professional ear, even in just one session, can usually tell if something being performed is sounding wrong or potentially abusive.
Because I’ve been able to teach a wide range of musicians of all ages and backgrounds, I’m able to point out immediate signs that lead me to diagnosing certain trouble spots for singers and musicians and recommending practices, exercises, and materials to aid in rehabilitating certain learned behaviors. By hearing a person sing, I can ascertain whether they’re using enough breath control, air support, or utilizing their resonators to achieve their natural resounding overtones.
My point is, great job if you’re teaching yourself how to play an instrument! It’s hard work! But, if you’re wanting to get over that learning plateau, consider seeking a professional instructor to help you out! Meeting with a music coach can help to build confidence, inspire and motivate personal practices, and ensure healthy accountability. So, if you’re tired of watching countless videos, reach out and I’ll let you know how I can help you achieve your musical goals, and quickly!
When you’re sharing your triumphs with someone, it’s always more rewarding.
Sincerely,
Jenny Thomas